The "Himbo's"

What happened to the days where your husband, when needed, would rise to the occasion and be the hero to you and your family? The days where you just knew he would take a bullet for you. Remember, women and children first?

Not anymore.

I don't know what is happening, but I am hearing from my clients that there is a very different male out there.

Some of them are attractive and young searching for someone who is slightly older to help take care of them. They want to travel, have lunch dates with their friends, and not worry about their day to day survival. Ex; recently, a successful yet only moderately attractive blonde client of mine told me about how many young men in bars are trying to pick her up. They ask the ole stand-by that women used to ask, "So what do you do?"

Are these the modern day gigolos that don't just want to exchange sex for money, but want to exchange their very soul for a lifestyle?

Then their are the bait-n-switch men. They are successful in when you meet them, but after marriage, they decide to retire. Oh sure, it sounds like he just needs you to carry the weight of the ship for a few months so his invention of a new kind of bug zapper hits the shelves, but it's just a ruse. He wants to stay at home, hang out, and have you do the work. 

This gorgeous redheaded client of mine came in today. I love hearing stories about her husband because every time I see her, he's up to something new and I get to see her make excuses for him. Let's see, he wanted to open a bar, they bought a boat so he could do boating tours, and he even ran for governor where he actually got 1700 votes! She now has the two kids on high alert for his dreaminess and whether his latest hair-brained idea is going to cost the family money. The most shocking thing though, he is not attractive. She could easily model and he could be a stand-in for that Disney parrot, José Carioca.

Is this what I have to look forward to is himbo's and dreamers? Grown men that I get to support?

Honestly men, put on your big girl panties and march your ass to the employment office. Have some dignity.

When you do get a job, just because you have money, doesn't mean you can be an ass.

Thank you.